我不會勉強你愛我
也不會不討好你來愛我
我只是在努力的做自己
努力學習做一個懂愛的人 ♥ :))
Sincerity?
8 years ago
3分鐘熱度
Not afraid of love.
Not afraid of hurt.
Not afraid of bruises.
Not afraid of tears.
Not afraid of separation.
Whatever it is.
Whenever I look back.
They put a smile on my face.
Or even though there might be tears as well.
It is really what I get.
It's warm.
It's memory.
It's my past.
It makes who I am today.
I choose to believe.
I choose to love you.
A much as I could.
A long as I could.
No regret.
It's only 3 minutes.
最幸福的事
请不要庸人自擾。
不要輕易沮喪。
不要永遠埋怨。
不要笑容裏，總是藏著眼淚。
最幸福的事，
自己還活著，
還感受著心跳，
眼睛還看得見心愛的人。
不要到心跳停止那一刻才懂得後悔。
現在還來得及。
你是幸福的。 :)
4/25/09 10:21 AM
寫寫寫，我只能不停的寫。
不停的寫，而已。
《下個星期去英國》
不斷地重播
眼淚也可以留下。
我是個不知足的傢伙。
跟着哼的我……
“ 我知道我想要
卻又不敢對你說
因爲我已改變太多…”
心很痛
可是卻不能做什麽。
爲什麽事，總與願違？
我只能不停的寫。
不停的寫，而已。
last monday
unexpected/
late/
approach/
opposite/
greet/
inquiry/
nervous/
technical problem/
side/
happy/
share/
read/
stupidity/
embarrassment/
teach/
knowledgeable/
smart/
embarrassments*/
conversation
silly
stupid
embarrassing
happy
friend.
peace =)
late/
approach/
opposite/
greet/
inquiry/
nervous/
technical problem/
side/
happy/
share/
read/
stupidity/
embarrassment/
teach/
knowledgeable/
smart/
embarrassments*/
conversation
silly
stupid
embarrassing
happy
friend.
peace =)
Result is Out
my result for my 3rd semester out jor
abi called me around 12am & told me to check
lol
guess what.. like usual.. i'm very lucky
(dunno why... but i'm very thankful for that = D)
actually i'm kinda in 'give up mode' for my result this semester
due to my laziness...(i emphasize one more time... i am damn lazy!!! haih..)
i expect my result will be mati kao kao
hpr(100% give up before/after exam =D)
which i langsung tak baca pun..since i have no idea about what to read...
i can only say 'thank you' to my lecturer loh
thanks to u... i learn nothing
critical thinking(fed up)
my time management is real suck.. i thought i have lot of time..
so spent all my times on precisely comprehending the article... xiao ngsiewming
ending up hand in a half blank exam paper.. haih... for what??
so that next time will kena spank reasonably?!?! (i'm talking nonsense now)
phycholinguistics
lol.. i know i will be safe... but i was really 'play play' with it loh..
haha cuz my essay for this paper can only be considered as a 'karangan' = 'fiction'
rather than a factual answer... *sad+cry+sigh+shame*
sorry dr. tanbh.. i know your course is very interesting
but.. i really did not 'educated' by you well well...
so i didn't work hard for your paper.. soooo sorry..
ok...
so here's my result for my 3rd sem
ok... lame i know
but still.. i did improve compare to my previous semester
i know... my course is easy... can NEVER compare to yours
but whatever... i choose an easy way to pursue my life
just to fulfill my lazy lifestyle...
but i really determine jor... i will work hard next sem...
(saying flapdoodles again... hope not.. =. =''')
lastly thou... i am definitely.. surely... literally
feeling thankful for my 'luckiness' all these years
from the moment i became a student... i mean from kindergarten till now
i always pass them with/out flying colors
thanks
UPDATE!
all my courses' results have finally been released =)
hoho... first time ever i got 6 As...lol (including 3 -As lol)
peace bro... may the victory continue... =D
feel free to read
Internet Addiction
In your view, is the Internet addictive? Why or why not?
In my opinion, Internet is not addictive as it can be considered as an environment and people cannot be addicted to the environment. I believe that Internet itself is not addictive at all. It is a virtual space that allows its users to do different things with it. The problems that we might see nowadays which accused by the public as Internet addiction, are actually lying with the Internet user's priorities. Internet users use Internet for numerous purposes, some for the business purposes and some for the personal life purposes. They are actually using the Internet to deal with their real life matters. In fact they are making their lives even more successful and better such as broaden one’s business opportunity worldwide and also tighten one’s relationship with the others even though they are far away from each other.
Nevertheless, what that makes the Internet users addicted is actually the content within the ‘environment’. As compared to our real life environment, there are a lot of things that can lead to addiction like drugs, gambling, work and sex. Internet also offers chances for one to contact with these activities. Therefore, it is all rely on the users to whether or not get involve with it, and become addicted to it. A passion adds value to one's life, an addiction takes away value. In conclusion, internet is just an environment for all of us to pursue of passion. Addiction only happened when one’s passion causes him or her obsession, compulsion, or excessive physical dependence or psychological dependence to it. Therefore, Internet is not addictive.
Can one find companionship online? Why or why not?
One can find companionship online. As I have mentioned earlier, Internet is a new form of environment that human face nowadays. It is also new domain of social interactivity which offers a space for people around the world to contact with each other and also an opportunity to experience a form of social contact, with no real social presence. This is a good opportunity for one to broaden their social life, especially for those who always found socializing difficult. Whether or not one can find companionship online, it is all depend on his or her attitude and personality. There are different kinds of people in the world we live in, so do the world of Internet. Therefore, one can definitely find companion online if he or she is being sincere to the others.
In fact, Internet is actually giving a better chance for those who are diffidence to communicate with others. They will feel freer and stress free when they communicate with others via the Internet as can easily voice out and share their thoughts with others since there is no one recognizes them. Even though this is not a good way to improve their diffidence problem, however it is still a good start for them by giving them a chance to open their heart for others to understand each other. This is a very good circumstance as they can get to know a lot of friends who are willing to share each ups and downs, help and support each other whenever they need it. As a result, they can build up their confidence once they get to mix in and get along with others day by day.
In conclusion, if one is a sincere soul who seek for companionship, whether he or she is in the real life or on the Internet, there will always be friends and family who accept you as who you are, there for accompany.
Do you agree with the author when she states, “If you can’t face the world, you’ll always find somewhere to hide”? Why or why not?
Yes, I agree with the author’s statement that if one cannot face the world, he or she will always find somewhere to hide. People always tend to have a lot of excuses whenever they face any difficulty. This is because they cannot handle the stress that the problem brings. They feel stress about the failure that they might need to face if they fail to solve the problem and therefore, they do not have the courage to face the challenge. They will then ignore the problems that they are facing, and get themselves involve to other activities that can make them feel happy, which they think that can ease their mind and pain. Many examples of this situation happened in our life such as drug abuser, pathological gambler, workaholic, alcoholic and etc. Most of them get themselves involve with these activities during their tough time whether it is family problem, financial problem or personal problem.
All of these activities offer them a temporary ‘shelter’ to hide from their problem, which is the reality of the world. It is exactly the same situation as the author statement, where they will always find somewhere to hide. Even without the existence of Internet, one can still get to find other excuses to get themselves away from facing the reality. This is one’s recreancy that makes them to choose to get into the addiction, the addiction of excuses and the addiction of escape from reality.
Is it safe to infer that the author believes that couples living together do not communicate enough? Why or why not?
No. This is because the author only point out her opinion, point of view and assumption. The author does not state out that this is a fact but it is only her own belief instead. The author does not have any strong evidence that all couples that living together do not communicate enough. There is no certainty by far that every couple that lives together is having lesser communication compare with those who are not living together. Some might think that word can be easier to utter when it is not face to face. However, communication is not all about utterances and writings. When couples live together, everything that they observe from each other is a communication. A smile, a gesture, a body language or even the way of how they utter their words is also considered as communicating as the term ‘communication’ is defined as the exchange of thoughts, messages, or information, as by speech, signals, writing, or behavior.
Other than that, whether or not the communication is enough for the couple is always depend on their personality and their attitude toward their relationship as well. If both of them are not willing to spend more effort and time to understand each other, of course their communication will not be enough. This is not the matter of living together, nor the use of Internet to communicate is more efficient. This is one’s responsibility and attitude toward a relationship. If one is concern and care about the relationship, everything is possible to be perfect. Therefore, the use of Internet is just a method to tighten couple’s relationship, but it can never be the reason or excuse for couples to become closer.
by Ashley Ng
ps: please take note that some of my writings are based on references.
In your view, is the Internet addictive? Why or why not?
In my opinion, Internet is not addictive as it can be considered as an environment and people cannot be addicted to the environment. I believe that Internet itself is not addictive at all. It is a virtual space that allows its users to do different things with it. The problems that we might see nowadays which accused by the public as Internet addiction, are actually lying with the Internet user's priorities. Internet users use Internet for numerous purposes, some for the business purposes and some for the personal life purposes. They are actually using the Internet to deal with their real life matters. In fact they are making their lives even more successful and better such as broaden one’s business opportunity worldwide and also tighten one’s relationship with the others even though they are far away from each other.
Nevertheless, what that makes the Internet users addicted is actually the content within the ‘environment’. As compared to our real life environment, there are a lot of things that can lead to addiction like drugs, gambling, work and sex. Internet also offers chances for one to contact with these activities. Therefore, it is all rely on the users to whether or not get involve with it, and become addicted to it. A passion adds value to one's life, an addiction takes away value. In conclusion, internet is just an environment for all of us to pursue of passion. Addiction only happened when one’s passion causes him or her obsession, compulsion, or excessive physical dependence or psychological dependence to it. Therefore, Internet is not addictive.
Can one find companionship online? Why or why not?
One can find companionship online. As I have mentioned earlier, Internet is a new form of environment that human face nowadays. It is also new domain of social interactivity which offers a space for people around the world to contact with each other and also an opportunity to experience a form of social contact, with no real social presence. This is a good opportunity for one to broaden their social life, especially for those who always found socializing difficult. Whether or not one can find companionship online, it is all depend on his or her attitude and personality. There are different kinds of people in the world we live in, so do the world of Internet. Therefore, one can definitely find companion online if he or she is being sincere to the others.
In fact, Internet is actually giving a better chance for those who are diffidence to communicate with others. They will feel freer and stress free when they communicate with others via the Internet as can easily voice out and share their thoughts with others since there is no one recognizes them. Even though this is not a good way to improve their diffidence problem, however it is still a good start for them by giving them a chance to open their heart for others to understand each other. This is a very good circumstance as they can get to know a lot of friends who are willing to share each ups and downs, help and support each other whenever they need it. As a result, they can build up their confidence once they get to mix in and get along with others day by day.
In conclusion, if one is a sincere soul who seek for companionship, whether he or she is in the real life or on the Internet, there will always be friends and family who accept you as who you are, there for accompany.
Do you agree with the author when she states, “If you can’t face the world, you’ll always find somewhere to hide”? Why or why not?
Yes, I agree with the author’s statement that if one cannot face the world, he or she will always find somewhere to hide. People always tend to have a lot of excuses whenever they face any difficulty. This is because they cannot handle the stress that the problem brings. They feel stress about the failure that they might need to face if they fail to solve the problem and therefore, they do not have the courage to face the challenge. They will then ignore the problems that they are facing, and get themselves involve to other activities that can make them feel happy, which they think that can ease their mind and pain. Many examples of this situation happened in our life such as drug abuser, pathological gambler, workaholic, alcoholic and etc. Most of them get themselves involve with these activities during their tough time whether it is family problem, financial problem or personal problem.
All of these activities offer them a temporary ‘shelter’ to hide from their problem, which is the reality of the world. It is exactly the same situation as the author statement, where they will always find somewhere to hide. Even without the existence of Internet, one can still get to find other excuses to get themselves away from facing the reality. This is one’s recreancy that makes them to choose to get into the addiction, the addiction of excuses and the addiction of escape from reality.
Is it safe to infer that the author believes that couples living together do not communicate enough? Why or why not?
No. This is because the author only point out her opinion, point of view and assumption. The author does not state out that this is a fact but it is only her own belief instead. The author does not have any strong evidence that all couples that living together do not communicate enough. There is no certainty by far that every couple that lives together is having lesser communication compare with those who are not living together. Some might think that word can be easier to utter when it is not face to face. However, communication is not all about utterances and writings. When couples live together, everything that they observe from each other is a communication. A smile, a gesture, a body language or even the way of how they utter their words is also considered as communicating as the term ‘communication’ is defined as the exchange of thoughts, messages, or information, as by speech, signals, writing, or behavior.
Other than that, whether or not the communication is enough for the couple is always depend on their personality and their attitude toward their relationship as well. If both of them are not willing to spend more effort and time to understand each other, of course their communication will not be enough. This is not the matter of living together, nor the use of Internet to communicate is more efficient. This is one’s responsibility and attitude toward a relationship. If one is concern and care about the relationship, everything is possible to be perfect. Therefore, the use of Internet is just a method to tighten couple’s relationship, but it can never be the reason or excuse for couples to become closer.
by Ashley Ng
ps: please take note that some of my writings are based on references.
simple me, simple wish
i'm just a simple girl
leading a simple life
achieving simple achievements
aiming simple goal
doing simple things
having simple things
and now,
i'm just a simple humanbeing
who's praying for a simple wish
i should think positively
Faith
faith, faith, faith
1st faith
the belief you hold on to
a force that keeps you move forward
to be enthusiastic about you life
to reach out for your dream
a strength that pick you up whenever u fall
2nd faith
the trust that you put on others
believe in the one you love and care
generates a stronger bond between us
so that you are never alone
so that there's always someone you can rely on
3rd faith
uncertainty that leads nowhere
insecurity that brings hesitation
if i have no faith
i might not go further
if i have no faith
i might have no companion
and so,
i have faith
i have hesitation that leads nowhere
i'm about to lose my uncertain faith
my positivity is soon leaving me here
alone
... ...
should i keep holding on?
is there an answer?
is that a faith?
My Top 10 Hottest Actors
jiang jiang~
i was again tagged by miss clarine! haha
thanks for tagging me
but i'm afraid your tag might just get 'dead'
when it comes to my hands
since i have no one else to tag
lol
whatever
...
so here's my
'Top 10 ♥Hottest Actors'
(p/s: the drama or movie that i mention is the one that make them HOT for me! lol)
♥1
孔佑 공유
Coffee Prince 1st Shop 커피프린스 1호점(2007)
(i start noticing him from some previous dramas or moviessuch as 'hello my teacher' and 's diary'.. i think he's so cute!!
but this is the drama that made me fall in love with him hopelessly!! lol
최한결~ 사랑해요~!! ^^)
♥2
趙顯宰 조현재
Only You(2006)
Three Dads, One Mom 아빠 셋, 엄마 하나(2008)
(he's my prince charming!! hehe... i love him!love him love him love him.. someone like him ^___^)
♥3
李東健 이동건
Glass Flower 유리화(2004)
My Boyfriend is Type-B B형 남자친구(2004)
(i think he's cute & hot! but my friends dun think so oh =. =whatever.. i still like him~ but his recent work isn't that nice..
i'm looking fwd for his better job! 힘내요!)
♥4
吳彥祖 Daniel Wu
Love Undercover 新扎師妹(2002-2003)
(he's a hottie for everyone i'm sure~~but i fell in love with him after 'love undercover'!
his cute & sincere character that made me attracted to him~ ^^
i don't really watch his recent blockbuster movies.. i prefer love story.. lol
he is now working for a new movie called '如夢' can't wait to watch it!
cuz it's been awhile i din get to see him act as a normal people! haha)
♥5
周傑倫 Jay Chou
Initial-D 頭文字D(2005)
(jay chou.. my idol used to be.. back in early year 2005..i was so in love with him.. his cute & shyness in the movie made me hot!
n his talents made him even hotter! well... that's all in past-tense! sigh)
♥6
George Peppard
Breakfast at Tiffany's(1961)
(oh my huckleberry friend~ the HOT one that can melt your heart~the one that melted Holly Golightly's heart! & mine too.. hehe~ he's a classic!)
♥7
Jared Padalecki
Gilmore Girls(2000-2006)
(rory's first love... cute & hot! i didn't watch gilmore girl since he left..still wonder why his character will turn out to be like that...
arr!!! i still can't accept the fact that he left! haha)
♥8
彭于晏 Eddie Yu
When Dolphin Met Cat 海豚愛上猫(2005)
My DNA Says I Love You! 基因決定我愛你(2007)
(1 word~ CUTE!! hehe... still, a hot body he has!)♥9
张孝全 Joseph Zhang
The Legend of Speed 極速傳說(2004)
(mars~ like his character in that drama.. he is HOT & cute!i like him to be with '蜻蜓' ^^ to bad he died in the end..
he's getting more famous now.. but i'm not that fancy bout him d~)
♥10
Adam Gregory
Beverly Hills 90210(2008)
(TY!!! as cute as the teddy~ he's just a guest star for 90210if only he's still together with annie & continue to be part if it!)
ok.. since i have no one else to tag
therefore... ciao!!
L♥L
The Best Prevention
"Shut your eyes and turn blind,
just so you won't cry.
Turn your heartbeat off and get numb,
just so you won't hurt."
untitled me
"you see nothing
cuz i'm nothing to you.
i see everything
cuz you're everything to me."
-ashley is actually assuming-
